So today I got 8 emails from Princeton Vet saying, Dear Ernie Kline, your pet (insert 1 of 8 here) is due for (insert shot here). I found this odd since I was just in my PetPortal account the other day, and I know everything was in my name.
So I had TM'ed stupid a few times prior to this to let him know that Big Joe was due for a vet visit and he needed to change Joe's information so the reminders stop coming to me, but he never responded.
So today I TM him today and say listen, all of the pets have been switched into your name, whats going on? So it turns out he was at the vet yesterday and asked to change Joe's info and they changed everyones.
So then he tells me the cable bill still comes to his house, so I call Comcast and take care of that.
So I go, "So do you still hate me or what?"
Oh man, talk about bitter. He totally went off on me, he hates that I have the house, he hates I have the bed, he hates I have the furnace that he has to pay for and on and on.. So I said, "If you remember correctly, I paid for 1/2 of the bed, and you took $5000 out of the last refi, which I'll have to pay for for the next 30 years so we're a little more even than you give me credit for".
Then he continued to go off on me, call me names, and tell me to leave him the hell alone.
So what, you may ask, did I do? I LAUGHED MY ASS OFF.
Yes, I'm a bitch, and I don't care. He's totally bitter over the fact that HE WALKED OUT? Hello? Not my problem. So you're stuck with a few bills and you have to live at home with Mom and Dad, not my problem. So you're a miserable fuck and I have my house that I adore in my town that I adore, where I have tons of friends and a wonderful boyfriend who I adore, so am I happy he left? HELL YEAH. My life has gotten so much better in the last 6 months, and I do appreciate the fact that he didn't make me sell the house or buy him out, but he chose that road, not me.
Why do I find it hysterical that he's bitter? Probably because I'm not bitter, or even hurt anymore. I can listen to 'our song' and not get depressed, and other songs that I associated with him I've already re-mapped in my head. When you date a stoic, and they leave you and don't act even the least bit upset, or hurt, totally completely emotional, its WONDERFUL to see them finally react to something. So the fact that he hates my guts makes me laugh, it actually made my day today.
Yes, it's a waste of my time to post this because I know technically I shouldn't waste my time talking to him or about him or thinking about him, let alone enjoying the fact that he hates me.. I know some will say that it only proves that I still have feelings for him, and I do. He was a great guy, he was funny and sincere and would give you his left arm if you needed him to, and he was an emotional wreck hiding under a guise of independence, and I know our breakup had nothing to do with me. I do feel for him because I know his family life screwed him up, abandonment issues, intimacy issues, the whole nine, and for that I do feel for him, but none of that was my problem or my fault. I'm glad he woke up and realized that he couldn't fix himself within the confines of our relationship, and I respect that decision, but what happened and what continues to happen is not my fault, never was, never will be. He chose to leave, he chose to sign the quit deed, and he chose to leave all of the furniture behind. He took his own shit, and the Tivo, and off he went and I let him go because I knew it's what he needed to do and there was nothing I could do to stop it.
So now I'm happy and he's bitter and I love it. :) So call me a bitch, I don't care, I already know I am one, but it made my fucking day to find out that he hates my guts and regrets making things so easy for me. :)
I'll be sure to shed a tear as I do my laundry in my brand new washer/dryer that he paid for, or listen to the rain fall on the brand new roof he paid for, or take a shower using the plumbing he paid for as I sit here in the shoes and sweater he bought me, listening to the iPod he bought me.
Not my problem. :)